I just saw this on the “interwebs” and thought of you.
Sometimes it’s difficult to remain positive and hopeful.
I know it. I cannot advise. I can only tell you what I do in the dark moments. It’s something I was recently reminded of while watching Eat Pray Love.
“Select your thoughts.”
Literally. This is not an abstract instruction. It’s very clear. I’m thinking shitty things about myself, my situation, my future, my fears. I make a conscious choice to think different thoughts, even if they don’t seem true right now. I think those different thoughts, and there is a shift.
It’s not magic, but it’s a healing seed that I have come to rely upon.